Like I told the guys – it’s no secret that people frequently form opinions about other people based on their clothes. The fact is we all judge – and are judged on appearance especially at work. The trick is to blend a pulled together, professional look that shows your personality, doesn’t feel trampy, frumpy, like you’re trying too hard to be young or just plain someone you’re not. It’s really not as intimidating as it sounds. Here are a few DO’S and DON’T’S to get you thinking about your image at work…and beyond.

DO take a minute to think about how you are perceived by others. Put some effort into looking good but DON’T get obsessive about your looks.

You DON’T have to dress expensively. You may want to splurge on staples such as classic pants, skirts and shoes. Unless you’re a supermodel you DON’T have to purge your closet every season, have fun with your with shirts and accessories to keep your look feeling fresh.

DO err on the side of dressing up. Looking overly casual is a sign of disrespect and not caring about yourself. Choose to look good because you’re worth it!

DON’T dress like you’re going to the club, on a date or out with the girls. Work is not the place to express your hotness by wearing too tight clothes or oversize hoop earrings and too much make-up. You want to present a professional image at work. Keep in mind that you are SO much more than a one note song!

On the other hand, DO buy styles that compliment your shape.  Your work wardrobe should fit properly and not overly large and baggy. Trust me, all that extra fabric only makes you look larger. Clothes that fit properly are the most attractive on every shape.  Attire that looks androgynous will get you ignored – not ahead.

DO find a signature style. Maybe you have a passion for vintage jewelry, multi-colored socks or a penchant for adding a stylish scarf that elevates any outfit. The days of conformity are over. What people are likely to remember about you is your uniqueness. How you present yourself for better or worse is an outward reflection of who you are on the inside.