One of the easiest ways to diffuse an angry customer is to kill them with kindness, but you don’t have to be a doormat and let them stomp their feet all over you while being your caring self. Besides, by acting very, very sympathetic – especially if someone is being nasty on purpose –  really.. read more →

Detach – Don’t take things personally. The biggest benefits of not taking things personally are self-awareness and clarity. As Eleanor Roosevelt said, “No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.” It takes practice to step back and be an observer of your life, but the benefits are huge. Observe – Look at the.. read more →

19 Sep 2011
September 19, 2011

When customers attack – part 1

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Quite often I’m asked how to handle those situations when customers are mean to you.  That could be anything from a funny look to actually hurling insults at you. Really it’s anything that makes you feel less valuable than dryer lint. In the following weeks we’ll discuss different ways to handle sticky customers. The thing that.. read more →

10 Sep 2011
September 10, 2011

A good lesson about prejudging customers

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This e-mail from a Minneapolis Minneapolis reader demonstrates why you shouldn't prejudge customers.  This Sales pro really got the last laugh, not to mention the big commission! Dear Ms. Chatterback, Here's my wacky customer story.  I work on commission in women's shoes at a department store in the Mall of America in Minnesota. It was a Sunday morning.. read more →

What is your idea of good customer service? Think most people’s concept is the same as yours?  Think again!  If that were true, you’d want to turn cartwheels of happiness every time you had contact with a business. Oh Joy! I get to call Tech Services! – Right… Here are some questions you can ask.. read more →